Wedding for Two?
I said Yes to the love of my life and I’m very happy. But his family isn’t. They have their reasons for not liking me, although they’re unfounded concerns. And honestly, my family isn’t his biggest supporter, either. With that said, we’re both intelligent people who trust our love and our commitment. Although it’s the first trip down the aisle for both of us, we’re considering eloping to cut out any bad vibes.
We really just want to celebrate our love with each other. If we do this, our families will probably have hurt feelings. But if we have the wedding, I believe our big day will be a big mess. Is saying I do in Vegas such a bad idea?
- Wedding Shy in Tulsa
Stefan Says:
As long as you’d have no regrets…why not! And why limit yourself to just Vegas? There are couples who have done what you’re considering and some have had extravagant celebrations just for two! I’m talking about the flowers, the dress, the exquisite food, the entertainment. If you really want to elope, there’s better and bigger ways than just an Elvis impersonator in a Vegas chapel. When you get back home from the honeymoon, you can have a reception for the family and make nice. Cheers!
My Momma Says:
Congratulations on finding the love of your life! This will for sure be a new chapter in your life. And, as such, it could be the opportunity for your families to view each of you in a new light. Don't just hope that this happens, invest the effort to enable it to happen with loving communication. First, talk to your families and acknowledge your perceptions of their feelings towards each of you. You might find out you're wrong about their feelings. But, even, it you're correct this is the time to seek their forgiveness , understanding, and love. Let them know they are important to you and you want them to be a part of your lives, beginning with your wedding. No matter their response, this could be an important first step to shoring up your relationships with both families, and laying some solid foundations for the future.
